The Munch

A munch is a casual gathering in a restaurant or bar where people can meet and interact in a no-pressure environment.   Come out, grab some food or drink and chill with like  minded people!

I still remember my first munch, and the fact that I just stood there, and felt like an idiot for being so shy. The people were the nicest and friendliest people I’ve ever met. I’ve found resources and been able to speak to people about my kink, without fear of confrontation or judgement. The amount of tolerance and openness is cannot be measured, and the discussions that can be overheard make me smile and feel at home.
– Ve-ra, TNG member since  about 2009

Dates
Munches are held on the second Monday of every month and start at 7:00pm (end time?  Depends on traffic flow.  If you can get there before 10:30, you’ll be fine).  For the rest of 2012 we’re looking at the following dates:
January 9            April 9          July 9                         October 8
February 13         May 14         August 13                 November 12
March 12                June 11        September 10         December 10

…if you’re imagining that everyone there is painfully hip and aloof, don’t.   It’s a friendly, dorky, enthusiastic mix of folk.
– Blaze Orange, TNG member since about 2007

Rules
The main philosophy governing our rules is “be discreet, respectful, and use common sense.”

• Use common sense. If in doubt, don’t do it — it’s probably not appropriate.
• No public display of toys.
• No play. This is not a fetish event, have your clothing and behaviour reflect this.
• Respect the venue, staff, and your fellow attendees.
• Keep in mind that not everyone attending is outed. Please be discreet in outside conversation.
• We have a strict no harassment policy.  If you’re feeling uncomfortable, or threatened by another’s behaviour,  please come speak to an organizer.
• The munch is  restricted to people between the ages of 18-35.   TNG’ers may bring their older partners with them as guests, however people outside of that age range attending on their own will be asked to leave

A note on photography at munches:  We recongize that sometimes people want to snap some pictures to share with the world (#foodporn anyone?) , however we also recognize that some people have very real concerns with being outted.  Therefore we will allow pictures at the munch under conditions:  First, no, this is not a venue that’s appropriate for a photo shoot.  Second, you must have expressed (verbal) permission for everyone in the frame both to take the picture and to post to anywhere.

Don’t worry too much about memorizing the rules; if in doubt, don’t do it until you can ask a host!

New?
Almost everyone is nervous their first time, but relax – we’re friendly!  Feel free to come a bit before 7pm to meet the organizers before things get busy.    You’re also welcome to contact us and let us know to keep an eye out for you.

Location

We currently meet at Kramer’s Bar and Grill, 1915 Yonge St. (Just North of Davisville, on the East side). We have reserved the upstairs room (and patio) for the munch. Kramer’s is an affordable establishment which is easily accessible by subway. Click here for a google map, and here for transit directions